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Anonymous asked: When were you last on a date? And what do a good first date holds for you, if you were to decide?

My last official “date” I guess would’ve been in the beginning of November and it was 🤷🏽‍♀️ I like really chill hangouts, basically something you could do with a friend is fine with me. I only believe in fancy dates while I’m IN a relationship because I don’t like dressing up and putting in a lot of effort/investment when I barely know the person. When the guy asks what I want to do, I almost always say “something cheap and low maintenance.”

Usually, I ask to do a hike for a first date bc 1. I love hiking 2. It’s fun enough and casual enough and usually free 3. It forces us to do something in the daylight and not just have it be a nightly hookup thing

This worked out for me twice over the summer in terms of being able to learn a lot about the person without there being all that pressure to turn it into sex right away. Honestly I’m not picky at all. If I’m having fun and getting to know an interesting person, I don’t care what we’re doing/where we are.

Anonymous asked: You okay after your blowout with your rents?

We’ll see - I’m about to try to sneak back in the house right now, wish me luck

Xmas day

Anonymous asked: Did you survive your Christmas ordeal?

I thought I did…..until about an hour ago when I had the biggest blowout fight I’ve ever had in my life w my rents 😐

Anonymous asked: Merry Christmas! Hope work is not getting the better of you. Have a wonderful day beautiful one.

Wow so nice of you - I appreciate it 🤗

Anonymous asked: As I know you are working over the next few days, I wanna be wishing you a very Merry Christmas and happy holidays. Somehow I just know you are on Santa’s nice list - even though I’m sure it also would be enjoyable if you were on his naughty list. Hope you will be giving the gift of your smile on your blog 😊

So sweet - Thank you very much ☺️

Anonymous asked: Without asking for address and such, can I ask where in the world you are from?

I’m from South Africa haha but I’ve moved a lot. I’m currently on the northeast coast of the US and will be moving next Fall 🤗

Anonymous asked: I am super sorry about your sociopath ex - but happy that you have broken the spell and come out stronger, better, smarter and even more beautiful (as if it was possible). However not cool he is stalking you on social media, but then again you said he is a sociopath. Stay strong and keep your confidence and never underestimate your self!

Why thank you ☺️

Zebra

ladjspinner asked: Have you ever dated someone older than your self? I mean judging from your stories about falling for the "wrong" guys over and over. I just wondered if there was a solution at hand, by looking at guys who might have settled into life, rather than having the mindset of a teenager. I know nothing in life is as easy as it sounds, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't aim for the stars ;-)

So I actually did try talking to older guys and you’d be surprised how immature and emotionally constipated even 30+ y/o guys can be. I mean even the ones who work on Wall Street, or the guy in med school, or the guy who owns his own companies and has 2 other jobs… none of them really had their life together in my eyes which is why I stopped talking to them. No one really “settles into life.” It’s always changing and the mature ones change with it.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve met some great people in the past and in the last year or so, just not people I see good outcomes or futures with right now.

Anonymous asked: I know it’s rude to ask a lady her age. So better ask what year are you born? 😊

1995 hahah

It’s only rude if she’s old… so don’t ask me after 40

Anonymous asked: So many questions I would like to ask, but not sure if you have rules for how curious and personally an Anon can ask?

If I don’t like the q, I’ll either answer sarcastically or not at all 😂

Anonymous asked: Where did you go in Cali?

Unfortunately I can’t say exactly where I visited or why bc my aforementioned sociopathic ex harasses and stalks me through all social media including tumblr so I keep my location/travel info to myself. But I can say that I was in both NorCal and SoCal in the last couple of months 🤗

Anonymous asked: I can’t believe you are single!!! How long was your longest relationship? And why did it end?

Welllll my longest relationship was my worst relationship cuz the guy was a legitimate sociopath who tried to ruin my life, dampen my spirit, and break my will to live. So I guess it ended bc I finally snapped out of a year long fog? Prob the worst year of my life, really.

Anonymous asked: Do you think Santa has you on the naughty or nice list? And what do you wish for Christmas?

I’m on the bish list.

And I want someone to dry clean my suits, fix my dog’s kidneys, get my car serviced, fix the blown speaker in my car, a new gym bag, and my 2016 waist back.